Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Why Do We Exist.....? Continued.......

Thinking further, some more issues made me ponder again....!

When someone ends his life, after being lost in love, Is it really because the person thinks he can't live without the person, whats the purpose of my living now.... so why n for whom I shud live....???
I wonder Is it really cause that you are left alone, feel lost, find no reason, loose all hopes n find no motive to live without that person, and so much so that you decide to end your life !!!
I say this is not the reason. One decides to end one's life not becus of this reason, Rather its the failure which one is unable to accept. One can't take the rejection positively. Its the feeling of being rejected, feeling of being failed. Our ego is hurt and we are not ready to accept /face the failure. Don't ve the strength of accepting failure wid grace n dignity. And is depressed to end life.

One may not agree with me, but ve a glance around you, how many people attemt suicide when they loose someone close( Be it any relation) to Death ??? Perhaps No One !!!
We know death is inevitable, we can rationalize this truth. We dont blame ourself for it, we don't take it as our failure. We accept it as destiny, and move ahead in the course of life facing the challenges.
Then why cant we do same when there 's a heart break, why cant we accept it as destiny, and learning from experiences, emerge as a much stronger person to deal with the coming challenges of life. Why block our vision of life by one person,,, there's always infinte more to explore n enjoy in life.
Hoping n praying for poor souls to be strong and accept the realities of life with grace.

2 comments:

Jit said...
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Jit said...

Hi Sapphire,

Well, a msg to all broken hearted n destroyed in luv n all luv lorns - u ppl decided to give away life for one person but what about all the ppl who luvs u, cant u live for them'.....think about it n think bout the ppl who luvs u conditionaly like parents, siblings, true friends!!

btw, I can feel the pain when some beloved one commits suicide....n seen some of the luv lorns who destryoed thier whole life....but I didnt let them down n out, gave them shoulder....gud to c they both r back to life!!

so all in all....tough times dont last but tough ppl do, so be strong!!

Rock on
Jit